April 25th, 2011 
Benz Silver & Gold Bead Charm Bracelet – Bridesmaid, Wedding Gift
- Silver & Gold Bead Charm Bracelet – Bridesmaid
- Beautiful keepsake gift
- Makes a beautiful gift for your bridesmaid
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- Supplied in a satin lined, cream coloured box with ‘Our Special Bridesmaid Thank you for helping make our day so perfect!’ printed on the lid.
This delightful, trendy, chunky bead charm bracelet makes a beautiful gift for your bridesmaid. Supplied in a satin lined, cream coloured box with ‘Our Special Bridesmaid Thank you for helping make our day so perfect!’ printed on the lid.
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Question by leleanorc: Is there a tactful way of saying “You can give us money instead of a gift!” for our wedding?
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No, and it’s not right to do that.
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There is no way to say that tactfully. People do not have to bring you a gift just because you invite them to a wedding (though they should). Do not say that… period…. it will make you look greedy. If anything, register for items and then go and exchange them… but DO NOT Ask for money~ you will end up alienating friends and family!
ONLY if someone actually asks you in person or on the phone where you are registered or what you would like as a gift. THEN and ONLY THEN, you may tell them this:”We haven’t registered anywhere, because we really have all the household items we need, but we are trying to save up for a few larger items.”.
You may also tell close family & friends that if they are asked, they may answer the same way.
To have a shower or register for gifts and then say this, would not make any sense, so make sure you don’t do those things if you only truly want money.
To say or print anything about gifts or money in any other way is tacky.
I’m struggling with this too.
What I am doing is whenever someone asked where I’m registered I say: “We selected some items from Target cuz you can never get enough sheets and towels, but for the most part we are just trying to say up for….”. (insert why you need money here) in our case, we are saving up for a honeymoon to Italy.
If they don’t ask…we don’t say anything about it.
yeah say “give us money mofos”
No. There isnt. Which sucks because we are in the same posistion.
We told are parents that what we wanted… and they agreed to pass the word on. We do have 1 month old baby. So its probably easier to say it.
Good Luck
Nope. Sorry. It’s not like a baby shower. People shouldn’t be expected to bring you any gifts although most people DO bring them. And most people automatically think to see if you are registered at a store or they will ask you if you are registered somewhere so you can ask them to give you a gift card or something. And you can always take things back to the store b/c they will most likely be in their original boxes
Sometimes stores like walmart will give you a gift card, sometimes money without a receipt. Most people just come to weddings to dance and eat without paying for anythin, so expecting money or gifts is kind of useless.
No, there is never a polite way to ask for a cash gift, or even a gift at all.
i have the same problem only because we have a big honeymoon plan…. it will be expensive so my idea is to mention the honeymoon on the wedding invitation, i hope they will get the hint, lol…. maybe that would work?
If you are asked the direct question what you would like for a gift, you can be honest and tell them you would appreciate the money to put towards…..blah blah blah.
Otherwise, no.
No .The only way is if someone asks you if you prefer money ,then say YES.
there are lots of poems on the interenet. Just google it.
I used a poem and 2 weddings I went to last year did the same, its not cheeky, but you could ask for vouchers instead and you will probably get cash too.
No, if you do that you might as well do it all the way and charge them per head to come into your wedding; it is tacky, cheap, low class and just plain nasty.
My advice would be to register carefully – meaning, only register for things you really want (not random misc. stuff) so people might buy you everything off your registry, so you’ll get cash or gift card instead. Tell your wedding party that you’d like cash so if people ask them where you registered, they could tell the stores and also politely mention that cash is fine too because of buying a house/paying for college/etc.
No. The most you can do is, WHEN ASKED what sort of gift you might like, to mention cash as one of the options, as in “We both love [hobby 1] and [hobby 2], we’re registered at WalMart and Sak’s, and we’d welcome contritutions to the honeymoon fund.”
Which leads to the question “How do I get my guests to ask what sort of gift I’d like?” You do your RSVPs by phone. It will save you a bundle of money and an armful of trouble, believe me. You don’t have to take and make all the calls yourself; delegate bridesmaids, groomsmen, and anyone else you can press into service. Most people will ask about the gift when they call to let you know whether they’ll be attending. An added bonus to RSVP by phone is that you avoid the awkwardness of people writing in extra names on the RSVP cards.
You can NEVER say it tactfully. But trust me, you will mostly get cards.
I got married last year and we got like 3 gifts and the rest were cards.
Yes there is. Don’t register anywhere and when guests ask you what type of gift you want, that’s when you tell them. That’s really the only tactful way of going about that. It’s okay to specify when you’re asked, because that’s precisely why they’re asking, they want to give you a gift and want to know what you want. It’s not okay to put that information on your invitations.
No and it’s rude to ask for money in any form.